Happiness 26 - The significance of irritation, frustration, despondence, and regret

[George's Books]

An explanation for being difficult with geniuses: Works of genius are beautiful. Sometimes stunning. Some individuals, having competitive attitudes, cannot accept the beauty of genius. Works of genius are genius values that geniuses give you, that your supposed to accept for your benefit. Genius describes intensive factors of nature. Being spectacularly descriptive of many truth factors. Seeming sophisticated and powerful. Others regretting such impressiveness of truth regret genius. Because of believing they could never be as spectacularly descriptive. Try to strengthen your philosophy.
The significances of disliking others achievements: Individuals, believing selfish fulfillment of their wants is worthy, dislike when others seem that they did selfish fulfillment of their wants; instead of them. Fulfillment of wants is actually mutual and reciprocal.

Why poverty happens: bad work habits, bad educational participation, accident, damage, bad spending habits, drugs, laziness, negative attitudes including not being opportunistic good, alcohol, crime, risk, excessive children, unemployment and significant difficulty because of these other reasons. This book should improve your financial condition.--And your life. Letting the wealthy pay into social maintenance for a vital society doing significant goods would provide good opportunities for those in need. Resulting in significantly more good people doing significant goods. More significant goods would result in more wealth. It is because of the good (including the wealthy) that you get to appreciate goods.

Those that study for school graduate and earn incomes. An education is valued resources society gives you that your supposed to accept for your own good. Earned incomes are by students who graduate, not necessarily by only those with the highest test scores.

Gossip, telepathy, and clairvoyance are flawed in the human condition. The reason is that gossipers, telepaths, and clairvoyants sometimes react negative. Much of human discord is because of this flaw. Intentional distortions also result because of this flaw. Intentional distortions confound normal thinking.

People hurt in childhood because of a family member or someone known to the family—that are disturbed because of that hurt—sometimes become excessive competitors or hurtful themselves. Unless they repair their feelings and live as good healthy adults.

The significance of irritation, frustration, despondence, and regret: Social stress because of immaturity sometimes hurts your feelings (slightly to significant). This is what is known as environmental stress. Also, because of environmental stress, your lifestyle gets affected in a manner that sometimes you don’t appreciate. Unappreciative feelings are sometimes regretted. This regret you sometimes make part of your attitude that might result in distortion or discord; for you or others. Stress management is the solution to environmental stress.

The significance of selfish immaturity: The immature are selfishly mean because of childish resentment of adults. Exceptional adults are resented by the immature because the immature feel deficient. Sometimes behaving envious and excessively competitive.

Why people become stressed, dilemmic, distorted or discordant:
Gossip
Inadequacy feelings
Mean treatment (harsh)
Envy
Jealousy
Narcissism
Frustrated competition
Hurt
Pain
Believing lies
Immorality
Selfish conflict
Sour
Bitter
Harshness
Significant stress
Difficulty
Confusion
Emotions
Neurosis
Psychosis.

Maturity:
Coordinated Psychological Vitality.
Beneficial Mature Behavior.
Significant Natural Happiness.
Philosophical good beliefs and feelings.
Warmth of demeanor and expression.
Appreciative social participation.
Emotional strength of autonomy.
Ambient respect.
Independent attitude and love of life.
Concise values.
Systematic methods of individuality.
Harmonized real values.
Coordinated precise beliefs.
Adult standard of existence.
Respectful interaction.

Some explanations for why people’s lifestyles are different:
Some people discipline their biorhythms. Some don’t.
Some people discipline their efforts. Some don’t.
Some people maintain their physiological, emotional, and psychological health. Some don’t.
Some people don’t get into trouble. Some do.
Some people experienced something harsh. Some didn’t.
Some people extend their discipline. Some don’t.
Some people participate with others. Some don’t.
Some people waste their time. Some don’t.
Some people are bad. Some are good.
Some people are lazy. Some aren’t.
Some people do more. Some do less.
Some people apply themselves. Some don’t.
Some people don’t inform themselves of possibilities. Some do.
Some people conflict. Some agree.
Some people get lucky. Some don’t.
Some people enjoy learning. Some don’t.
Some people feel bad. Some feel good.
Some societies can’t maintain their population. Some can.


Subtitle: Why nature is good for you.

I remind you that you still are aware of the wisdom of not-that-bad because you are.

There ARE algorithms/existentials/transcendentals/etc. that you CANNOT affect. All these algorithms have more good than your capacity to make them not good. You would have to become more good to make them not good, but then you would be good that you wouldn’t do such a thing.
Metaphysics is larger than physics and at least as good as physics yet physics still is capable of existing good. Even when inside something larger like metaphysics. Implying good is larger than the physics of the universe. Yet the physics of the universe still is capable of existing good.

The child years are most effective when the child exercises, plays, strengthens, and willingly learns from adults. Learning fortitude, discipline, sociability, tolerance, rationality, interest, and values (including tolerance to crying and children). Informing children their fragility strengthens with growth. That growth providing them with adult skills.

Any type of crying is disliking something, regret, pain, depression or emotional hurt. Developmental management of crying occurs with managing dislikes, managing regret, managing pain, managing depression, and managing emotional hurt.

Why the following? To convince you to allow perpetuation of capacity for joy. Remember to realize that people have asked you before to not to try to corrupt existence. For your own good. For their own good because then they won’t have to deal with the needs YOU have from NOT DOING AND BEING GOOD. Something good people don’t need: NOT BEING GOOD. Free to be free of NEEDING to be good. Good Free.

I give you this information with the intent you allow me to live amongst you safe, strong, secure, relaxed, and happy, and positive, and without anger. Confident. The significance of confidence I would like to experience would be confidence that feels that all humans are capable of behaving towards anyone that allows them to feel safe, strong, secure, relaxed, happy, positive and without anger.

Enthusiasm can exist for you for a very long time. You´ll like being good.

Operable competitive attitude: You gotta settle for your desire to attain 1st place to be only a temporary fulfillment because others also have desires to want to attain 1st place, and they will, like you have. 1st place is for a short while because of the improvements that come along with the passage of existence within time that affect many others. Including the affects of those at 1st place. Accept that you won’t always be at 1st place. Participate in the adequacy of living that your capacity for striving to attain 1st place produced. Then you can allow other people the same striving.

Methods of Demeanor, Conduct, Expression, Feelings, Beliefs, Attitudes, and Emotions

1) Self-evident Intrapersonal Acceptance
2) Relaxed Communication
3) Deference to Harmony
4) Accepting Social Participation
5) Participating with Human Endeavor
6) Assisting those with Stress or Complications
7) Interpersonal Comprehension
8) Belief in the Celestially Angelic
9) Belief in Worthy Feelings
10) Participation of Appreciative Experiences
11) Biorhythmic Maintenance
12) Participation with Human Faith
13) Discipline your Beneficial Disposition for the Common Good
Subtitle: Faith that you are sufficiently natural.

Stressing (as Confirming the significance of something) allows you to have methods to decide to do something AND then appreciate it. This is the basic method of perpetuating conscious existence. An alternate partial definition of boredom. The other part of the definition is you can always stress to not be overwhelmed with boredom. Methods exists for living better than what stress can produce AND living without stress. Accept this and you can have the capacity to believe stress to be not-that-bad when it occurs.--Having accepted such a capacity. Power for easiness of existence.

Since you have already experienced something in your lifetime that you didn’t appreciate, and are still alive and desirous of fun and happiness; that is of a relatively significant amount adequate to satisfy you at times; don’t waste your time deciding upon doing something not good, bad or evil. Many people, in some manner or other, have this conclusion eventually. The reality of being will reinforce itself (as occurs variously throughout living existence) in you, when you exist responsibly; as is the case, once again, if applicable.

The significances of personality characteristics: Individuals because of their useful or worthy beliefs, attitudes, experiences, memories, and health express themselves with various amounts of coordinated individuality. Most desire to coordinate their individuality sufficiently for worthy self appreciation and worthy relationships. The usual desire for self appreciation usually results in the behavior of self fortification of beliefs, attitudes, experiences, memories, and health. Believing you appreciate your individuality best, when it is useful or worthy, allows you incentive to make yourself self-appreciative. If you would like to improve your feelings of yourself read Chapters 18, 19, 20 then read Chapters 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. Alternately read the appendix. Appreciating the coordinated individuality of others results, many times, in worthy relationships and self-appreciative feelings.

Suggested reading for believing in the Size, Strength, Power, Goodness of Worthwhile Good

The Millennium Project: Colonizing the Galaxy by Marshall Savage

Anything describing Wise, Mature, Developed Psychology.
History Books about the triumphs of humanity, the accomplishments of people, the enduring beliefs of strong Individuals and societies.
The Story of Philosophy by Will Durant
Intuition by Judee Gee

Practice feeling happy at a feeling of happy at 100% or higher instead of 100% or less. Do this by enjoying your happiness each time you feel happy. (You practice like feeling happy at a level less than 100% when you NEED to be happy.) Keep yourself happy at a level of 100% or higher instead, so you WON’T need to be happy. You will be ENJOYING happiness instead. 100% percent happy feels like confident functional capacity of gladness. Justified because of these ways: less than 100% happy is still a happy. Other levels also exist and are possible to attain. Any level of happy is enough for you to feel another level of happy. See Chapter 10, 18. Alternately, practice liking yourself.

Realize that humans in the future will have the capacity to live helping anyone, anywhere, anytime; and quite possibly make you like them. See Chapters 10, 18.

Very young children can also have some form of brain function repair if necessary.

Producing interactive civilization systems that increase social capacity for everyone.

Allowing complete freedom, if chosen, from violent people anywhere that humans exist.

Producing energy capacity functions that anyone can adapt for personal uses, in a world of political stability.


Subtitle: What I don’t know what I am doing.

I haven’t figured out why I make mistakes. Especially when I do know I have made a mistake. Possibly, trying to do something without adequate preparation or forethought. Or doing something that I don’t really want to do. Or being tired, or weak, or uncoordinated for what I am doing.

I don’t know why people don’t commonly and casually express the range of positive ABOVE 100%. Think: Negative has a maximum limit of approx. 100% or less. Actually, uninhibited expressions of LOVE sometimes feel more positive than 100%.

I don’t know why I relate unknown thinking to negative thinking. Doesn’t seem like it is intuitively necessary. Truthfully, I DON'T (anymore) relate unknown thinking to negative thinking. Distrustful thinking for many is negative thinking.

I don’t know why evil treats good like good is not enough for evil. Good knows evil is the limitation of good to evil (evil to good). Good ALWAYS knows about any evil that is evil. Evil is just an undefined function with a good definition. It might not have a good definition. Therefore, evil has to accept the fact that Function always has the capacity of Function, by definition. Evil cannot justify itself acting on the claim that existence is corrupt because some things obviously aren’t. Evil wants to believe some things are corrupt, because its perceptions aren’t capable of anything else anytime it perceives some things as being corrupt. See Chapter 7. Evil is actually intented damaging abuse. Evil is usually associated with immature selfishness. Evil makes people angry.

I don't know why evil insists it is evil even when it relates to and recognizes good, (even if only as a secondary consequence of being evil to a good or a non-evil). How can it be evil if it can recognize good? Evil to an evil? How? What application? Evil pretends it isn’t evil anytime it does evil.

I haven’t figured out why the force of negative seems to control me as powerfully as the force of positive controls me. Maybe because I am positive enough to notice any negative affecting me. 4/16/99 addendum: The force of positive does control me forcefully enough that negative doesn’t, usually. I am positive that only intended abuse makes me feel not positive (dis-ease).

I don’t know death as well as life. All I know is that something might exist after death. Possibly afterlife functions and maybe heaven. Probably.

I don’t know immortality as well as mortality. All I know is that there might be an infinite number of methods of living or immortality.--And that immortality is possible.

I don’t know how much I don’t know.
I don’t know how much I do know.

I don’t know as much as some people or extraterrestrials. I do know, as many people do, that positives are nicer than negatives.

I don’t know why true equality takes so long to be recognized by all as something that many people have in very many instances, to very many people if not everyone; or why equality bothers some people and not others. Regardless of their status.

When I forget something positive, my sense of positive still remains; AND allows me to think of another sometime after. I don't know why some people don't utilize and display this emotional intuition.






Subtitle: Human Foibles


Possessiveness Solution: Live and let live.
Resentment Solution: Interpersonal Tolerance.
Condescension Solution: Empathy.
Antagonism Solution: Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Harmony.
Spite Solution: Emotional Stability.
Pettiness Solution: Intrapersonal Stability.
Meanness Solution: Emotional Stability.
Envy Solution: Live and let Live. Practice good living.
Jealousy Solution: Live and let live. Practice good living.
Evil Solution: Practice good living.

People as they act towards various influences sometimes feel a desire that most wouldn’t fulfill. How? They have become what someone else told them to be. From people who also desire undesirable fulfillments. Read 1.8, 1.13, 2.5, 2.6, 3.9 and any others you have highlighted.