Happiness 22 - Don't think that Life is bad or that you are bad

[George's Books]

Child desires, abilities, and actions sometimes are wrong for worthy interactions with adults. Factually, since the child interacts wrongfully. The child might then consequentially decide that the adult is being childish. The childness of the child cannot conceive its own childness many times. Sometimes wrongly insisting the adult is asking childish insistences towards the child.

What can you do about people who seem to be a source of hurt? YOU think of these people like that. Don’t think that. Just don’t become abusive. Practice thinking free of such irresponsible thoughts to be able to think of sources of strength. Trying to do something that results in nothing is probably because of not REALLY trying to do something that results in something that you want. You tried to do something that you really don’t want because you DON’T GET IT. Why? You tried to do something that that something does not allow you to do because YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU DO. This happens all the time when your decisions are controlled by hurt. Self-defeating.

Because of different beliefs people sometimes disagree about their considerations of others. These disagreements usually occur because of irresponsible gossip and irresponsible competitors. Many times innocents believe these gossipers and competitors. It is best to believe common truths and faiths and to effectively manage the gossip and competition of others. Doing so, you could spend your time agreeable to others instead of disagreeable. Additionally, having effective considerations of others allows interactions nicer than gossip or competition.

Evil People exist (since early sapien man) that convince you of pain, sorrow, regret, loss, hurt, fear, violence, upset, and weakness. Their ultimate goal is to make you easy to be taken advantage of. For their own selfish purposes. They also make you feel pain, sorrow, regret, loss, hurt, fear, violence, upset, and weakness because they feel pain, sorrow, regret, loss, hurt, fear, violence, upset and weakness AND Immaturity and Irresponsibility. When they make you feel hurt, they don’t feel their hurt for a short while. These people cry very often when amongst people that don’t cry for some reason. Also, these people sometimes believe they feel happy when they try to make other people suffer. Probably because discordantly selfish people made them associate inflicting irritation with adequate happiness. Possessiveness also makes many people very irritating to what they want and believe and behave like they can’t have. Of course, they won’t as irritants. Children rarely know when they are being conditioned by evil people, or the extent of the conditioning. People eventually realize any evil programming that has been done to them and exist without it sometime in their mid-adult years, or sooner. Reread what you have highlighted throughout the book at this time.

Extrapolation: By now you think that I seem to be sophisticated in my capacity development. I think I am sophisticated in my capacity development because of the human relationships/schemes/significances learned at universities and colleges; and from books I have read.--And from people at least twice my age during my youth. MORE SIGNIFICANTLY, because of trying to responsibly enjoy human existence. These relationships/schemes/significances teach that anything can be learned. Go to School. Appreciate nature. Study people. Decide to do something you want. Also, I try to remain positive.--And I never choose to damage anyone’s psychology (although I might have difficultly if someone is trying to manipulate me to do so). I am at the level where I can behave equal to anyone that would behave responsibly.

This book intends for you to be fun and look for fun. Your capacity for fun can be equal or greater than mine because I have often found many people to be lots of fun. Think Positive enough to see that very many people have accomplished a happy existence, in many more instances than Wealth, Fame, Beauty, and Love.

Approximately 20,000,000 to 120 million people have the burden of maintaining life standards of society so people won’t devolve. Try to appreciate them as your big siblings that civilization and society was desirous of and adequate to produce. These people are the politicians, religious leaders, educators, administrators, artists that try to make society and civilization maintain all its beneficial qualities. They want everybody to be their socializing equals so that people won’t decide to behave irresponsibly or nonworthwhile that might result in social devolution. Also, you can appreciate that being able to copy them is something you can appreciate and develop for yourself. The responsible people seem to be the closest in responsibility to your adult species-responsible representatives of humanity. They are equal to you in many respects. The perpetuation of society and civilization has to be done. All of you contribute to the actions of these people for deciding on the benefit of society. Any human that wants to improve society can consider themselves a representative of society. Some people do more—for others and society. Coordinating society so that someone is taking care of your social participation and (some of) of your needs is possible. Letting those that do more provide for others would benefit society.

My level is the level of someone who believes that there are all kinds of things to life. I believe in life so much that it convinces me to utilize it in any manner it permits. The people that exist with worthwhile meaning and significant enthusiasm seem to be the closest and most equal to my level. More of them have been exposed to the same developmental relationships--(including the significances of nurturing, friendship, responsibility, discipline, sociability, play, work, learning, morality, desire, accomplishment, civilization, and love)--as I. Personally, I believe the reality of having known many humans with development equal to my own. My level seems like any human being could consider themselves my responsible equal instead of considering themselves my unequal. I also believe that all humans can like themselves nowadays. What about the supposed inequality of existential relationships and significances for individuals? Since you are within infinity and eternity you have to settle for having something. Doesn’t seem right to you? Don’t think that. Think that you can have an acceptable standard of living. If you think you have an acceptable standard of living, you think you have an acceptable standard of living. Just go find it. If you never convince yourself to think you have an acceptable standard of living you could possibly experience emotional angst. Then it will take you even longer to attain an acceptable standard of living. Even so, you can still repair your emotional angst.--And attain an acceptable standard of living. Anyone that has recovered from heartbreak and went on with their lives, and still feel happy some of the time, will tell you that they still decide to look for acceptable standards of living; because there isn’t much else to do for themselves. Civilized societies usually have the most equal sampling of individuals. Existential significances of worthwhiles have many variables that allow for many enjoyable conditions.

Trying to control and possess someone who would rather not be controlled or possessed sometimes results in angst for the selfish, controlling, possessive, and manipulative. Many immature people will tell you this experience. Someone who cannot be controlled or possessed willingly results in your incapacity to appreciate control and possession regardless of what you attain. You are probably trying to heal your traumatizations if you participate often in controlling others. Try to repair your happiness as described in this book instead. See Chapter 18.

Don’t think those you label as superior to have special powers to affect your happiness detrimentally. This can only happen if you went to them looking for such a feeling. What does this mean? You felt detrimentally already, and then projected the blame on a supposed superior. You will truly feel like that person is superior to you with such an attitude and feel hopeless with yourself and maybe experience Psychological Damage or Psychological Death. Don’t think that life is bad or that you are bad (or that supposed superiors are bad) because you feel bad and project blame for your bad feelings on others. Not true. The truth is that you have been instilled with an unreasonable thinking function. This unreasonable thinking function might impair your growth, maturity, capacity and development. The only reason why you might feel detrimental around those who haven´t impaired their growth, maturity, capacity and development; because of recognizing that you need growth, maturity, capacity and development. Since you recognize you need growth, maturity, capacity, and development (regardless of the reason). Grow, mature, capacitate, and develop. You should have realized by now, that you want emotional, mental, and psychological coordination; and you have it.

What about real inequality? If it is a real, you have to treat it like a real. Try to not feel bad towards real situations. They have the significance of being real. You can try to have a significance real to yourself that allows you not to think OF THE real significance of others that you might seem to feel unequal to. You think unreal and unproductive if you do. Feelings of diminishment, inadequacy, doubt, uncertainty, usually don´t even apply as long as you don´t choose to fret about others. The machinations of society and civilization don´t trap you in unequal possibilities AS LONG as you participate with society and civilization.

Emotions Limitation: Feeling Anomaly, Interaction Anomaly = selfishness. Feeling Anomaly, Interaction Anomaly can be situations that arise because of selfishness. Emotions could possibly Not have enough capacity to resolve any problems that arose because of selfishness. Try never to make yourself feel an anomaly.

Learning subjectives of pain, negative, angst results in subjectively feeling those things and subjectively insisting on those things when evident. Usually by perpetuating them. Subjectivity segmentizes existence (usually insufficiently) and can only utilize variables contained in those segments. Objectivity has the utilization of known or realizable variables and doesn´t have the problem of insufficient segmentization.

Adolescence is the sensitization of the child to human distortion and discord. The child is highly sensitized because of being aware of distortion and discord for the first time. This high degree of sensitization lasts till young adulthood—The teenage years. Then the young adult has accustomed itself to the existence of distortion and discord within society.

Expecting strong people to submit to your dependent controlling weaknesses cannot be accomplished. Try recognizing that they do something that keeps them strong around your weaknesses or anything actually. Use your own strengths so that you won’t try to impose your weaknesses on others. (If you think you must, ask for help. The only worthwhile selfishness.) If you persist imposing your weaknesses on strong people they will reflect your weaknesses back on you so that you eventually deal with your hurts yourself. You can't hurt strong people, you can only hurt weak people. If you are weak, you can still feel hurt yourself (if only anger, or upset, or angst, or resentment; limbic brain emotional stressors). Why try to perpetuate feeling weak by trying to hurt strong people? Don’t think that someone else who has attained a non-limiting amount of capacity implies that you won’t/can´t attain a non-limiting amount of capacity. Don’t think that only a few are capable of attaining a non-limiting amount of capacity. Think that evil people might try and prevent you from attaining a non-limiting amount of capacity. Therefore, try not to prevent people from living with their lives. Hope that everyone accepts not preventing anyone from living with their lives. Their lives ARE their lives. Comment: The primary source of psychological damage is from family members or someone known to the family. Repair the damage by loving your family.

Love, lust, hate, envy, jealousy, despair, psychological damage or psychological death can be blamed on others, but it was you who experienced love, lust, hate, envy, jealousy, despair, psychological damage or psychological death detrimentally. Such blaming and resentful feelings won’t result in much satisfaction or repairs for your sorrows. Hurt those you don’t want to be happy still makes you someone who has to maintain a sense of impaired development. What can you truly enjoy at a level of impaired development, even if it is hurt you want to enjoy. Allow success and development regardless of its magnitude. Why? Regardless of its magnitude, success and development are still success and development. That improve society and civilization. Thinking that negatives are projected on you is probably because you think negative often. Try not to have any justification for blaming someone else for your negatives; because if the blame is actual then it did happen; and you won’t get any positives from those who hurt you since they did. Since they WERE ACTUALLY NEGATIVE. Therefore, you have to maintain immunity to irresponsible acts. Psychological damage or psychological death can be repaired.

Errors are committed by people many times. Accept that you will someday recognize your errors as being errors. Accept that errors are a consequence of the necessary function of maintaining a stability of some sort, at least (presumably), and for realizing the strengths and functions of possibility. Correctly accepting the strengths and functions of possibility will minimize errors.

Treating someone like they are to blame for your inferiority is pointless because if you are inferior to them how are you gonna be able to affect them with your hurt? Decide to ignore those who seem superior unless you treat them with goodness. Why? Treat them with goodness for some worthwhile gratification you will get from them. Such as the gratification of interacting with someone who has a worthwhile psychology and affect with, about and within them. Then you will be better yourself, and treat other people with goodness also. Eventually everyone stops feeling inferior and, more importantly, feels very good about human existence and humanity.