Happiness 14 - Strength is stronger than power

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COMMON SENSE FOR BEING A GOOD HUMAN AND LIKING IT

Needs: Programming of good nature.
Wants: Acquirement of truth-trust mentality. (Effective for enthusiastic
acceptance of reality.)
Respects: Philosophical mindset of existentialism. Live and let live.

ALL METAPHYSICAL GOOD AS ALL METAPHYSICAL GOOD SEEMS LIKE IT IS ALWAYS REALIZED AND MADE TO EXHIBIT CLOSURE, COMPLETENESS AND A CHANCE AT PERPETUALNESS. Do not deny yourself this knowledge. The truths of closure, completeness, and perpetualness are available for those who want to be good.

The appropriate capacity to do something you like is done with that appropriate capacity. True for anything. The appropriate capacity to do something you like is adequate with that appropriate capacity. Since this is true, function for anything is best utilized for something you like. Since appropriate capacities best functioned truly feel most likable. Liking capacities most functional permits adequate appropriate capacities. Appropriate capacity to do something you like is done with that appropriate capacity.

People that have yet to stop damaging others could be dealt with by increasing your amount of sleep, and sweating, and reliance on very close friendships. These people need stress alleviation so that they interpret positive or good knowledge with a positive or good perspective.

A SIGNIFICANCE OF IGNORANT HUMAN HARM: Evil people who find types of hurt with the hurt justification are prone to view positives as an imbalance of hurt or evil (not enough hurt, not enough evil. Too many positives). Victims of evil may be conditioned to view positives as something they don’t have and therefore something not positive. People who feel psychologically weakened may view positives they don’t have as something not good to their wellbeing. The common point is that these people have instilled psychological significances that make them feel crying when any of the positives they may possess are taken away (obstructed, damaged, impeded, hurt, denied, etc.) These people have to realize the positive of the KNOWLEDGE of what may detrimentally affect their positives. To be immune to those things. Also, people who feel that positives aren’t a good thing, don’t know what positives feels like. So, the only thing they feel is the lack of positives. Positives are not a negative, by definition. Don’t feel negative about the reality of positives. Negative feels negative because of Negative FEELING negative. Feeling the lack of positives won't be very effective for trying to attain positives. You should try to feel to attain positives instead. You can be happier that you really don’t Need to feel negative about positives. Try to remain content with the positives you already have instead of unnecessarily dwelling on negatives. Try to do something for feeling more positive. To have the possibility and to be able to feel positives when opportunities appear. Usually from your desires. Civilization and society exist as positive possibilities for your desires.

WHY YOU SHOULDN'T BLAME THE CAPACITY OF CHOICE: It isn’t all your fault because other people have affected you. You don’t have to feel incapable because it isn’t all your fault. If it were all your fault you WOULD have made yourself completely incapable. No one is completely incapable. Conversely, since it isn’t all your fault you have some capacity to improve your life. Partial deductive proof most choices are made for self fulfillment. Try to make choices whose actions will fulfill you. Try to make choices that society and civilization participate in fulfilling you.

Strength is stronger (more energy-based, more fundamental) than Power. Power operates within Strength. Strength doesn’t have any connection to corruption.

Using terms that have worthwhile significance for not worthwhile events implies that worthwhiles still signify the use of such terms. Doing something that you like that is evil has the effect of not liking to do something that is good. How can you decide to like to not like and remain amongst the feelings of Worthwhile? Or Capacity? Or Strength? Or Happiness? Or Bliss? Or even anything that would allow you to remain with the ability to WANT TO DO ANYTHING? Evil has to feel good to feel happy (partial inductive proof that evil really wants to FEEL Good). There is no existential case of an evil-existent good. How can you feel happy about evil knowing that only the good capacity of happy could allow evil to feel happy at all. Your feeling happy with evil doesn’t let you at those moments feel happy doing a good because you are doing something that is evil. Your feeling happy with evil doing an evil doesn’t remain because good allows the Good to feel HAPPIER with good doing a good. Something you realize when-your-evil-on-good-people-doesn’t-make-you-feel-happy. Something that is quite common amongst the memories of evil people. Feeling happy with evil has the significance of feeling an evil happiness. Something that has no existing significance (for a good evil). Good Happy cannot be an Evil for it to be a Good Happy. How can a good evil be a good happy then? Considering there is no such thing as a good evil to begin with. Therefore, evil does not have happiness as a given. Therefore, wanting something evil because of what you didn´t do and still want to do implies you can´t do it by utilizing selfish evils. Literally, you don’t do everything you want because obviously you have to settle for doing the things that you DO do. Those things are never everything for the finite lifer. They certainly are never everything for the selfishly evil. Possible Proof that evil is a waste of time and something that good can do without. These arguments need to be understood with the assumption that evil isn’t good. You could ask for help to be good instead of resorting to evil. The evil isn’t worthwhile argument in this paragraph requires concise understanding.

Negative people when preoccupied with a reactive psychology needy of instruction and repair may react (unassumingly) to positives because of not knowing anything else to do; being reflexively needy of direction and repair. The only recognized and accepted positive being that of directed repair. Signifying that directed repair is the reactive need. Self directed repair is also a method of repair.

Psychological weakness might occur because of nervous system damaging disease, damaging (usually too many) emotional stressors (usually inflicted), or traumatization. The psychological weakness might be minor or disabling. People might live many years unaware that their psychology is weak although they at times are aware of their emotional pains and possibly their negative behavior. An effective method to recognize any psychological weakness, is to always consider any of your traits as something you do when you are weak/crying or when you are strong. An easy method to repair psychological weakness is described in this book. See Chapters 3, 6, 9, 13, 18.

You shouldn´t be antagonistic to people since the only result is annoyance, yours or theirs.

If you decide to blame someone and spite them you are dealing with a secondary significance of your uneasiness/hurt instead of repairing the primary significance--which is the effects of your uneasiness/hurt. Blame is only a time-wasting consumer of your psychological resources. You are defending yourself against what has already happened (not too effective); instead of repairing what is actually happening: the uneasiness and hurt.

Satisfying resentment by displaying resentment at someone results in that you have committed something that increases the significant discord of the resentment; with your decision to express resentment on that someone; because you then are also part of a distrust that increases the discord of your resentment; that you then would probably feel to express again on someone else. You would be dissatisfying your psychology that had become preoccupied with the problem of dissatisfied resentment. Eventually you would be crying very often because of your dissatisfaction. You also would often participate in antagonism. Had you decided to psychologically work out the discord or distortion then you would remain psychologically intact; as you were before feeling the resentment. Alternately, had you decided to forget the resentment your psychology would remain as good.

Fear of Cosmic-Level Corruption (or higher) doesn’t occur because corruption doesn’t have any relativistic or metaphysical capacity or effects.


Chapter 13

EMOTIONAL STRENGTH
(I recommend you read the first 12 chapters before reading this chapter. )


Learn strengths to deal with any feeling.

Emotions at times are expressively violent and exhibit emotional differences and/or arguments, but nevertheless unharmful. Unless you believe (possibly wrong) that the expressiveness and/or arguments and/or differences are too difficult for your emotions. Then you might also reactively behave expressively violent and/or exhibit emotional differences and/or arguments. If any of these become too difficult for you, or for the person that got you to do these things, then you might resort to even more expressive violence and/or exhibit emotional differences and/or arguments; until you agree not to differ with each other about your emotional differences or you assault each other. In some cases very severely. Realizing that emotional expression is at times very emotional instead of considering them very evil or bad, won’t result in emotional conflict. Emotional conflict actually only happens when someone else’s emotions of differing intended violent and abusive emotional expression are actually or really harmful. Abusive emotional expression results in emotional conflict. Deciding not to begin annoying someone with your emotional differences because those differences are yours, not theirs; won’t result in emotional abuse or conflict.

Pain differences (usually categorized as emotional differences) you shouldn’t argue or fight each other about them, because not conflicting feelings allows your day to be a day without emotional conflict.

Justifications are your accepted living, and for your living, for your personality. Stress and reactions, of those selfish or justified, affect your personality—stressed, reactive, selfish, or justified.

Dominate and fluidly control your feelings all the time regardless of your material and significant existence. Dominate your feelings all the time so that you would possibly feel any worthwhile you want. Such an attitude will allow you to acquire and feel any worthwhiles that you get. This book teaches self control. Many books teach self control.

Participating in the relational state of equality allows you to interact with others who participate in the relational state of equality. Presumably, you could interact with anyone who participates in the relational state of equality as long as you do also.

Accept that some people may not be aware of your situation. Try to always communicate with the manner of obvious understanding and verify that you are understood about exactly what you intended. You will experience or perpetuate less discord or distortion.

Concentration can be applied to learn and refine relationship skills.--And learning and refinement skills. Concentration of Responsibility Nature can be applied to learn wisdom, endurance, immunity, responsibility, friendliness, trust, etc. Reactionary resentment nature of emotions can react to anything it considers resentment towards. Concentration of self-controlled responsibility SUFFICIENT to not react can allow you not to display resentment; so that people won’t react to you. Don’t be chaotic with your emotions; be responsible and rational with your emotions as they are inherently designed.

RATIONAL SENSE OF SURVIVAL OR RATIONAL SENSE OF LIVING

Surviving can manage/negate reacting to Abuse or Harm (This is a nervous system function).
Assimilation/Being can produce Self Control.
Coherent Reaction can manage and can stop reactions to Fear.
Body/Mind Coordination can manage and can stop reactions to Fright.
Happiness Exercise can manage and negate reacting to Weakness.
Interaction Capacity can manage and negate reacting to harmful Stress.
Commit Vitality can manage and negate reacting to Psychology Damage or Psychology Death.
Trusting Yourself that you can feel safe can manage and negate reacting to Paranoia.
Ethical Beliefs and belief that ethics exist can repair and alleviate and manage and negate reacting to Hysteria.
Learning Responsiveness can manage and negate reacting to Anger.
Personality Integrity can manage and negate reacting to Meanness.
Reinforcing Actual Autonomous Beliefs can manage and negate reacting to Discord.
Providing/Allowing Significants can manage and negate reacting to Hurt.
Wakening/Reset Function can manage and negate reacting to Fainting.
Fundamental Processing (something that always exists) is another way of looking at Unknowns.
Improvements are possible because life gets better. Nature grows.
Psychological Development can manage and negate reacting to Dislike.
Dislike allows you the capacity of de-function, as a given resort of choice, when you bore of something.
Self-assuredness is for Appeasement.
Vibrancy can manage and negate reacting to Incapacity.
Developing Unused Potentiality can manage and negate reacting to Dysfunction.
Miracles make you happy (assumption).
Steady State Thoughts can be achieved through memory loss. Other methods exist. Chaotic thoughts can be alleviated.
ASSIMILATING Explanation-Experience can manage and negate reacting to Diminishment.
Security can manage and negate reacting to Panic.
DO-LIFE-PLAN! and accept relaxing to that plan (as a last resort: the life plan of eternity) can manage and negate reacting to extreme panic.
Enthusiasm Development can manage and negate reacting to Nonworthwhiles.
Time Intuition, Existential Progression is feeling (including sensations of pain). Sensations of pain are usually a small part of time intuitions and existential progressions.
Eat Adrenal Glands for Depression.
Manage your Health and Strength when overwhelmed with Envy.
Detach from and thereby forget your feelings of ignorance and resentment.
Sleep instead of letting yourself remain Confused.
Educate away your Ineffectiveness.
Cry instead of remaining Selfish if your selfishness makes you feel hurt. Try to do something responsibly worthwhile for yourself.
Do something Vibrant/Vital instead of wanting to do or feel something Irritating.
Energize (using any of many various methods) People to Worthwhile Function that are Uncooperative for good relations.
Placate/Instruct people that display Prejudice.
Associate instead of Disassociate.
Humor yourself instead of letting yourself feel Shallow.
Interact with others instead of thinking yourself Unsophisticated.
Ask or Give a Worthwhile instead of letting Easily Upset occur.
Enliven someone to feel enthusiastic enough to do something for themselves to have them leave you alone (because you are preoccupied with another worthwhile task already); instead of hurting/killing someone to have them leave you alone. You can enliven them by telling them of or teaching them or asking them to do a worthwhile task. Also, tell them that you may someday do a worthwhile task together. As could be possible some of the time.

Assuming that someone's personal feelings have significance to your personal life might occur when you see someone with a disagreeable expression (you are assuming they might be a source of distrust that might result in hurt for you.) Consequently, you mistakenly assume that their personal feelings and expressions are meant to be some concern of yours. You assume that person has such an expression because it appears to be directed at you. (Many strained or seemingly not good expressions are due to headaches, infections, preoccupation, sadness.) Usually, that person is just doing his own thing and doesn't even know or care what you could possibly signify to his personal feelings. Don't get angry at people who seem to have disagreeable expressions about them. You don't have to since those expressions aren't because of you. Try not to react to assumed angst or assumed disagreeability meant for you. A disagreeable intent and expression are what are actually distrusted.

(Strength and weakness imply that weakness only exists if a possible potential for strength isn’t there. Such lacks are only possible in societies that perpetuate diminishment). Competitive selfishness is a very common method of diminishment. Presumably because of assuming an inadequate humanity and civilization.--And the assumption that overpopulation cannot be compensated for. Alternate presumption: for-a-while diminishment because of instilled damage. See chapters 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 18.

Explaining Commonly Known Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Distortions:
(I recommend you read the first half of chapter 18.)