Choosing the life Partner - A few tips

[loverspot]

Everyone falls in love. A lover need not be a good life partner. Here are some practical tips about choosing your life partner
1.Choose who understands you


An understanding man can be a good hubby. So do choose someone who cares about you, know what you are, and this minimizes the conflicts in your post marital life. It's always nice when he understand your worries and get coped with your problems.
2.Dating is a good idea
Go for a date, so that you can understand him well. But it's better that you have sex after marriage, and that makes a successful family. A survey result by a website, showed that about 60% of couples who had pre marital sexual intercourse were divorced later on.
3.Choose a Polite man
A Polite man can be a loving husband. He always does give importance to you. A smart guy can be impressive, but not necessarily be a good partner.
4.Talk him and see observe his response
It's important how he respond you. If he is not really interested in the topic you are speaking, and he openly says it, that's a plus. Frankness is a real necessity. Also choose someone, who allows you to express your views, and who respects your views.

[Graydory]

that's very true. you almost had all the points there. thanks for sharing

[feelice]

Great advise,thanks for your sharing,and how can we choose a friend is very important. Necessary personal experience of some things can help us sometimes.

[Asad]

I am 15 and I am a boy.
So, I fit in all those points
However, I am not going to marry this early! hehe

[prettysue]

Thanks for the good tips, loverspot.

I would like to add some tips.
1. Choose a God-fearing person. God is very important in every relationship. He must be present in yours.
2. Choose a person with the same spiritual beliefs with you. A family should be united and should have a one common doctrine about God.
3. Choose a responsible person and of principle.

[cognitive]

Interesting topic .
The tips you listed here are very good in choosing not only your partner but your friends ,too. BUT..... I don't see where love stands in your points , how much does it count in choosing your lifetime partner in your opinion ?
Supposing one falls deeply in love with a person who is not exactly the best polite man neither too honest nor very caring .... what would you recommend her ? To forget about her love and find the "right" person whom may never fall in love with ?!