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Default What makes you happy? money or family?

Some are saying that money makes their world go round while some are saying that family is what keeps them happy. How about you?

I will be giving my answer after a few days!
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While I have to admit I'm pretty happy on the rare weeks that all the bills are paid and we have a little left over to use for family outings, I think the health of my family makes me so much happier. The past couple of years my husband has had some mild health problems and my mother inlaw was diagnosed with Hodgkins disease in February. I would be so happy if they both were 100% better, no matter how much money I ever have.
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What makes me happy is having my family around me, all in good health. Having enough money to have the bills paid is good too, lol. :p
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I think that what will make happy is when I don have my own house. I want to get out of my parent’s house and leave my own life so that I could enjoy my life a little more. I know that this sounds selfish but I really think that if I’m going to stay at home with my parents then I wouldn’t grow up as a person.
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keeper, I don't think that sounds selfish at all. I think if someone is going to experience life fully, it is best to experience it out on your own. Although, there are people out there who are content to stay with their parents. If that works for everyone involved then I see no wrong in it.
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"Health is wealth",if we're healthy then we can only enjoy our life.Money is essential for everyone,but it brings temporary happiness in life.

Family is must to get happiness.I'm enjoying my life with my wife & son.Without my family I can't think to live.
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when i am with my family and friends,,,and every one is fine and doing great, this makes me happy...

By seeing your loved ones are happy you can be happy.
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I am my happiest when I earn enough (and then some) to provide for my family's needs. And that's why I love the internet soooo much! It gives me the best of both worlds!
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Having a career not just a job. Sure family is apart of my happiness but I am not happy when I feel that my job is just a job and not a career.

What is the difference between a career and a job? Well a job is something that anyone with half a brain can do but a career requires a full brain, laptop, desktop and a PDA. LOL just a little joke
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I feel happy when i dont have any guilt in me.Every person have their guilt embedded in them.But i cant take it and confess it to my parents or friends.Doing this makes me really really happy.
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when I am with my family and friends, and each one is very well and to make large, this returns to me happy.

While seeing your liked is happy that you can be happy.
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This answer is going to sound really bad, but its so true. When everything is going my way, I'm happy. I know it makes me sound very selfish and egotistical, but think about it: Are you truly happy when something isn't going your way (that you have control of)? I never remember being happy when I couldn't pay my bills or when my car would break down lol. But I do try to remain humble and grateful, and always think that "it could be worse". I try to be happy even when nothing's going my way, which unfortunately is sometimes very hard to do.
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A happy life for me is when you are contented with what you have in life. It's not bad to struggle hard but too much of means greed. So, you should be thankful even on the tinniest blessings you receive each day!
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I am happy when I am honest with myself first and with people around me , which is not that easy . Sometimes ,people would act in a way that make difficult for me to be honest with them and tell them the whole truth .I really feel irritated when that happens .
Also ,I am happy whenever I travel , I just love to see new places and meet new people . And I am happy when God fulfills any of my desires , is such a sweet feeling !...
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I am happy when my parents are in good health and knowing that they are doing good. They are old now. I do not see them always as I am working in a different place.

I dream to travel to the ends of the world Travelling for pleasure is also one of the things that will make me happy.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

I think that what will make me happy is when I have my own house. I want to get out of my parent’s house and leave my own life so that I could enjoy my life a little more. I know that this sounds selfish but I really think that if I’m going to stay at home with my parents then I wouldn’t grow up as a person.
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Smile Re: What makes you happy ?

Happiness is just a state of mind, one thing that you can decide for your own, not for someone else ...

Just keep telling yourself that you are happy, then you will realize that you will always be happy.

As for me i feel happy when i party with my friends, go out with my girlfriend, play games and watch movies.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

Many things make me happy. When I play Dota on my computer I feel very happy, especially when I own the others...I also feel happy when I am very hungry and I eat a lot (I don't know why )
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

I would say that money does not make me happy but the security of having money does make me happy. I have no intent to spend my money I like to save it so I feel secure for if there is ever a time where something may go wrong and I need it.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

What keeps me happy is knowing that I am financially secured. I despise working so much but because I am a lazy person, I work harder now just to be lazy later on.

It's such a joy when I get to stay home for months at a time eating away at my savings, lol.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

There are lots of things that makes me happy.. Like whenever im playing computer games, makes me happy.. Have a little chat with friends everyday makes me happy.. About the computer games playing.. Many people (older ones) question us who are in younger age that what are the benefits we get when playing games. We just say "Happiness and satisfaction that real life can't give us." I bet all games knows that
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

Seeing my son smile makes me happy it might sound cheesy but thats all it takes. We were at the Beach a few weeks ago and the best part of it was watching him discover things for the first time and the obvious joy he found in them.
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I'm a person to love to be cool & relaxed. Many say if there is money we can be happy. money is not the source. work hard , give ur best , be kind with every one. listen to right things. relax ur self. spend ur time at home. this give me more happy. don't get tensed for unnecessary things. it leads in health problem . a proverb " health is wealth " if ur healthy then ur the happiest person.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

Being with friends & having time to choose where that time goes makes me happy. Experiencing nature & playing a strategic game makes me happy as well. I like humor a lot too, any over the top jokes & alike I will probably laugh out loud to.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

As of now being a programmer and a hacker I am happy when:

a) I figure out a mistakes I have been making for hours since my program.
b) Create a completely new script.
c) When I find an exploit in a site.

Still the top of all this is when people appreciate my work! And I have got all of this over and over again in the last few days!
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

What make me happy are seeing the happy faces of my kids each morning and seeing their peaceful faces when asleep at night. They really light up my life! I'm so glad that they come to my life and my I feel so content with that. As the famous phrase go, "they brighten my day," especially when I'm feeling low and depressed at work.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

My children, my husband, a hot bath, a glass of wine, clean linens, a good debate, Diet Coke, Indie Films...the list goes on. lol. I think that it's the things we take for granted that effect us everyday, and make us the happiest without us even knowing. Just curling up on a cold day with a book next to the window is so nice...
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

Happiness is something so subjective -- meaning mine could be different from yours and from one person to another. Everybody would be wishing for happiness and I think people are working to have it everyday. Sadly, happiness is something so elusive. Or maybe, we have just forgotten to go basic as we approach life. Will money make you happy? Will position of power be your gauge of happiness? Or successful business of your own? Or a successfully raised family?

Whatever it is, we must always remember that just like success, happiness is a journey and not a destination. For me, happiness will always end up with the family. I mean it is the bottom line. It encompasses everything to me.

All other thing like money and material wealth will boil down to nothing without a good family as the backdrop and foundation of everything while living in this increasingly sad world.

Working hard for our own happiness, we must make sure that the end justifies the means...always.
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

* The look on my dad's face when I surprise him...

* My niece..when she prefers to come to me (rather than anyone else) and hug me when she is really upset

* My mum's sense of triumph, when she successfully types and sends a mail

* Spending hours listening to my baby cousin's endless tales of school romance and persecution
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Default Re: What makes you happy ?

Happiness could simply mean being satisfied with what you have and what you are. If there is contentment of what you currently have or of what you currently are, then basically happiness comes in. If you keep on haunting for more even though you for yourself know you could not have them or could not become one, are you happy? Honestly you're not. Then, where is happiness? Be content, be the most, be the best of what you have and what you are, make the most out of it and for sure happiness will be on its way to meet you.
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