Are you the same religion your parents are? Do you share their same beliefs right down to the thread? What do you think could be limiting about doing this. Were your parents fairly strict in their religious traditions?
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My parents raised me as a "Casual Christian" as I call it. My definition of a Casual Christian is someone who calls themselves a Christian just because thats what they were told they were, without actually having put much thought into it.
My parents are casual christians. They only really pray at christmas eve, they dont really care about giving thanks to god (whoever that may be) and they kinda make fun of people who are really really religious (especially Catholics). This is actually only my dad I'm talking about. My mums really neutral and accepting to other religions. So is my dad but sometimes a little teasing gets a bit out of hand and it bugs me a bit. I decided that if I was religious, then I wanted to have a reason.
After a bit of soul searching, I became really fond of the Hindu culture. I started to meditate every night, and learned a few mantras. When I became open about this to my family, my mother was great with it. She didnt change religion herself, but she helped me along the way. She got me a few books, and helped me celebrate Diwali and other celebrations.
My dad and my sister (also a casual christian) were quite teasing, and condisending. They said I was only doing it because of the Beatles and George Harrison (which I am a huge fan of) and made it look that way to other people. I found it really hurtful, as if they were implying that I had no other level. I told them that and they both felt quite bad. My sister completely turned it of but my dad still teased me a tiny bit. I learned not to let it bug me as I remembered that I wasnt doing it for them, I was doing it for me.
I just kept in mind that at least I could be bothered to get up and find religion for myself instead of having it fed to me from an early age without really understanding. Peaple at school were a bit bigoted about it. My friends werent though. They supported me, even the athiest ones. In saying all this, I mean no offence to anyone. My dad may come off as a bit of a bigot, but he's great and I love him to bits.
Also, I see people as people, and I dont really care what they believe in. As long as they dont try to force their belief (or non belief) on me, and dont try to force mine out of me. So I dont mean any offence to anyone of any religion. Or any casual christians.